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What silence does before it becomes wisdom
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A story of silence as first refuge, then discipline, then a doorway into wisdom.
Mindfulness
Attention Is the Rarest Form of Generosity
A closing meditation on the phrase that quietly organizes most contemplative teaching.
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Money can be given while thinking about something else. Time can be given resentfully, counted while it passes. Attention is the one gift that cannot be given absently, because absent attention is not attention at all.
This is what makes it the rarest form of generosity: it can only be given whole. A divided attention is not a smaller gift of the same kind. It is a different thing entirely, and the person receiving it can nearly always tell the difference, even when they cannot articulate it.
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